Dad is going to get a feeding tube and Mom has total control over choices, finally. Maybe it won't change anything, but we have to try. That is what we want...a chance to try. Thank God all of us are on the same page. The other good thing about the feeding tube is we can now have Dad get all the pain meds he needs and not worry he is suffering. That is a big issue right now. So, praying all of this will help make him feel more comfortable and stable.